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Relationships & Dating
What people in these situations did next, in their own words.
why is he hot and cold
After a magical date and affectionate texts, he suddenly stopped responding.
why do I need constant reassurance
I'm stuck overthinking every text I send her, terrified I'm bothering her or ruining things, even though I know we're getting along.
he won't commit but won't let me go
He said he wasn't ready to date, but I can't tell if that was really true or just an excuse.
why did he stop texting me suddenly
I feel frustrated and miss him between dates due to his impersonal texting.
how long should a situationship last
He said he wasn't ready for a relationship, but then he got married not long after we ended. I can't make sense of why he couldn't commit to me but could to someone else.
why is he hot and cold
He says he isn't ready for a relationship but still wants to see me as a friend—what does that actually mean for us?
why is he hot and cold
I feel close to her in person, but her distant texting makes me wonder if we're really on the same page or if I'm missing something.
why is he hot and cold
She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, but every time we meet in person, she seeks me out and the chemistry is obvious. I don't know if I should keep hoping or move on.
why is he hot and cold
He rejected me twice and insists we're casual, but now he keeps making jealous comments about my dating life and acting weird when I mention moving away.
how long should a situationship last
We're exclusive, but he won't call me his girlfriend. If we're not seeing other people, what's the difference?
why do I need constant reassurance
I want to text him to connect, but I'm worried I'll seem too eager or pushy if I do and anxious if I don't.
he won't commit but won't let me go
He wants me to wait two years while he figures himself out, but expects contact and closeness, keeping me stuck.
why do I need constant reassurance
I love him, but giving constant reassurance every day leaves me drained and needing breaks.
he won't commit but won't let me go
I want to talk about marriage after nine years together, but every time I bring it up, he gets upset or avoids the conversation, leaving me unsure if we have a future.
how long should a situationship last
He moved on less than a month after dumping me, and for a year I couldn't stop thinking it was because I wasn't good enough.
he won't commit but won't let me go
We want to get married, but he says it's only right if we're married in the church, and I don't want that.
why did he stop texting me suddenly
After weeks of daily contact, he suddenly stopped texting after a morning where he rushed me out.
why did he stop texting me suddenly
He's so affectionate in person, but barely texts when we're apart.
he won't commit but won't let me go
I spent nearly a decade with someone who wouldn’t discuss marriage, and when I finally pushed for clarity, he wanted a break to see if he was missing out. I had to decide whether…
how long should a situationship last
I thought we were close, but after six years he never told me he was getting married—why would he hide this from me?
why is he hot and cold
I can't understand how she could say she loved me, be intimate, and talk about our future right before breaking up, and now seem totally fine while I'm stuck obsessing and…
why is he hot and cold
I really like him, but his inconsistent communication makes me feel anxious and uncertain about where I stand.
why did he stop texting me suddenly
She is affectionate and engaged in person but barely texts between dates, leaving me unsure if she is interested or not.
why is he hot and cold
I keep waiting for him to commit or snap, so I put off doing things I want to do, but he refuses to define our relationship and gets jealous anyway.
boyfriend puts me down
I stayed in a relationship where he mocked my love for nice things and his family made me feel like an outsider.
why is he hot and cold
He acted like a boyfriend, then said he wasn't ready. I'm confused.
why is he hot and cold
He treats me like his girlfriend, but refuses to call it a relationship or commit to being my boyfriend. I don't know if I should push for clarity or just wait.
found out boyfriend was cheating through Instagram
I found photos of him with his ex on a stranger's Instagram, which explained his unexplained trips and our constant conflicts over exclusivity.
long-distance high-school relationship breakup
We tried to maintain our relationship through lockdowns and distance, but it ended because our lives stayed on different continents.
he won't commit but won't let me go
I broke up with her over cultural and language barriers, but now I'm haunted by doubt and wonder if it was a mistake.
he won't commit but won't let me go
Every time I ask about engagement, he gets upset and says he doesn't know when he'll be ready.
boyfriend jealous of my success
He pursued me for my achievements, then resented them. Dinners ended with his forgotten wallet, leaving me to pay repeatedly.
how long should a situationship last
I ended a four-month situationship because he couldn't commit, even though he said I was his main person.
Why did he ghost me after a great first date?
We had a great first date, he invited me to his birthday, then he stopped texting entirely.
my girlfriend won't come out to her parents
I love her, but she says she may never come out to her parents.
Tinder ghosting / ghosted day of the date
I was on my way to meet him when I suddenly changed my mind, went home, and blocked him.
how long should a situationship last
I want to know where we stand, but I'm afraid to ask.
boyfriend cheated after years together
We had been together since high school and survived years of distance. Then I realised the woman he was talking to at his birthday was actually the person he was cheating with.
why did he ghost me after 3 months
Three months, twelve dates, exclusivity, and then I was blocked everywhere without a word.
how to know if someone is using you for money
I bought luxury items for a popular boy who never paid me back.